I know there are always good reasons for scheduling things like this. "Soandso is only in town this one day." "This is the only time most people's schedules are free." "We have to work on Monday, so Sunday isn't good."
And, honestly, I don't expect people to rearrange things just for me. I know it sounds that way, but I do understand.
And I know that there are plans to do this particular one again, so this isn't fair of me.
But it gets rather frustrating to, time and again, have half my friendslist squeeing about the get-together they just had in New York City on a Saturday afternoon. Or Friday night.
And complaining always rebounds because when people *do* schedule something I could theoretically attend, something happens or there's a convention or other thing I can't get out of. So maybe I'm just not supposed to attend these things.