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Mama Deb
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My Arisia schedule:

  1. Responsible Monogamy White Hill Sat 2:00 PM

  2. Female Fandom in Comics Lexington Sat 3:00 PM (moderator)

  3. Harry Potter for Adults Franklin Sat 4:00 PM

  4. Why Write Fanfic? Thoreau Sat 5:00 PM (moderator)

And then, apparently, I collapse in an exhausted heap.


I would think that you could do irresponsible monogamy in all sorts of ways, ranging from adultery, serial monogamy of the heartbreaking sort (as in ruthlessly tossing person A aside because person B is much more bright and shiny, or deliberately breaking up the relationship between C and D because you want D, etc.) through flirting/teasing and then backing off with, "How dare you! I'm married!"

A lot of the irresponsible behaviors are pretty much the same for monogamy and polyamory, at least at the core of not treating other people as human, not respecting self and others, and the like.