I'm not hiding. I trust that my friendslist will do their best to hide any spoilers they might find properly (behind cuts that state that they are concealing spoilers and nothing more), and if things are revealed, it's inadvertent.

I've noticed far more posts about "don't spoil me" or "I don't mind spoilers but I won't spoil anyone else" than "Spoilers! Get your spoilers here!" anyway.

In fact, I don't actually recall any.

But I can't control anyone else's behavior and I don't want to go away.

I can control my own - I will do my best to keep all spoilers underwraps until at least a month has past.